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I knew a guy with a similar problem...it was his eyes:
The most striking light grey eyes you've ever seen.
He ALWAYS wore glasses .
I asked him about his glasses once....and he showed me his eyes .
And as tolerant of unusual appearances, even I caught my breath at his mesmerising eyes.
You can't change what you have....but you can change your own attitude.
Maybe ....instead on concentrating on others reactions, look past it.
And eventually....they will too.
The most striking light grey eyes you've ever seen.
He ALWAYS wore glasses .
I asked him about his glasses once....and he showed me his eyes .
And as tolerant of unusual appearances, even I caught my breath at his mesmerising eyes.
You can't change what you have....but you can change your own attitude.
Maybe ....instead on concentrating on others reactions, look past it.
And eventually....they will too.
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noswimmingpool · 26-30, M
@BoobooSnafu What I'm also wondering is, is there a breaking point for people when they've been blushing too long? Because they look broken.
Let me give you a scene from my life:
I talk to a customer for 5 minutes a time, perhaps 5 times per day, for 2 weeks.
During these talks, the person is completely red in the face to an abnormal level, they look lost in the eyes, like they are about to "faint" from how embarrassed they are. A bit like they are shocked that this is happening to them.
I then see them from afar, when they don't notice me, I see their face is back to normal when they don't notice me there, and I see them looking sad in a sofa as if their whole life was destroyed.
What should I do? This is how a lot of people react to me.
Let me give you a scene from my life:
I talk to a customer for 5 minutes a time, perhaps 5 times per day, for 2 weeks.
During these talks, the person is completely red in the face to an abnormal level, they look lost in the eyes, like they are about to "faint" from how embarrassed they are. A bit like they are shocked that this is happening to them.
I then see them from afar, when they don't notice me, I see their face is back to normal when they don't notice me there, and I see them looking sad in a sofa as if their whole life was destroyed.
What should I do? This is how a lot of people react to me.
@noswimmingpool I've already suggested all i can.
Perhaps be thankful that you're not ugly , or have slurred speech.
People react worse to that.if they're not shunning you or walking away...then they'll get over it.
Humans are adaptable.
Perhaps be thankful that you're not ugly , or have slurred speech.
People react worse to that.if they're not shunning you or walking away...then they'll get over it.
Humans are adaptable.
noswimmingpool · 26-30, M
@BoobooSnafu I am grateful. I just don't know how to live without a job though. If I get fired because people got angry from blushing over me, that's one of the most pathetic things I've ever heard of in history of mankind. I am trying to be nice to them.
Is there any form of apology they'd like from me?
Is there any form of apology they'd like from me?
Act like you never noticed that they blushed and play it cool? Maybe they are blushing because you are blushing? Or giving off a certain vibe? Maybe it’s not your looks because right now you are simply assuming it’s your looks. Have you ever asked anyone? If you really want the answer, ask one of the people blushing. Otherwise, act like it never happened and carry on as normal. As you’re just going to build on anxiety
noswimmingpool · 26-30, M
Ironicman · 56-60, M
Maybe it's your body language rather than your physical looks?
Ironicman · 56-60, M
@noswimmingpool not saying you should change. If there's one you trust, ask them what it is. Maybe it's your after shave?
noswimmingpool · 26-30, M
@Ironicman Can I tell them something to calm them down?
Ironicman · 56-60, M
@noswimmingpool maybe ask someone in your family, they will know you best. Good luck
Fairydust · F
You need to put some clothes on.
Tres13 · 51-55, M
Cool story
noswimmingpool · 26-30, M
I am serious.
Give me serious advice please! Help me! Please! I get fired. My life is hell because of this. Help me, somehow @Tres13
Give me serious advice please! Help me! Please! I get fired. My life is hell because of this. Help me, somehow @Tres13
SW-User
Lol 😂 😂 😂 😂