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I "don't Judge A Book By Its Cover"

Me in my pole dancing outfit walks into costa tonight , can’t sit near the window away from people so I go and sit at a two chair table in the corner. A lady say about in her 40s constantly steering at me and giving me weird looks , I say I do dancing. She then finally looks away and goes on her phone. I put my stuff down and I go and get a drink. And go and sit down and she looks again like really disapproving then looks away. Just because I show off my legs and wear a leotard doesn’t make me a slut or a bad person and doesn’t mean I’m looking for anything. Stop judging people on their choice of clothes. And I had to get changed at the bus station as my class starts at 6pm and I can’t keep walking through someone else’s class and disturbing it and my anxiety stops me from doing that so that’s why I walk to class like that. I get this every time I go out like this. It’s the 21st century , normalise people showing their legs and wearing leotards. The days when women wouldn’t show their ankles are over 😂🤣
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I have never liked judgemental people. Get to know someone before you make a decision about them.
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@PrivateHell same , my parents taught me that when I was little. I always dress different and people get the wrong idea or are scared or judge or harass me , it’s really hard , many of times I have to explain why I dress the way I do. With pole dancing my instructor told me the more I show the better as skin helps you grip to the pole better so that’s another reason I wear what I do , I think it’s mainly that people aren’t used to seeing stuff like that.
@SW-User well just be you, and let them have their issues. The problem is them, not you.
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