When the person you are talking to is refusing to meet you deeper ...

Was in your shoes years ago. I was into him but he didn't feel the same way. We stopped talking for like 3 years. When we started to again he was ready for more.

peterlee · M

Just be there for them. Your friendship will grow.

MellyMel22 · F

It’s hard, especially if you really feel for them. Though I only somewhat had that issue once and any other time it was others complaining I didn’t allow it. Some people just aren’t built for it, unfortunately and some just need more time to get there.

Lostpoet · M

Maybe they are incapable of it.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Perhaps they cannot? Impossible to force anyone to do so.
To be honest, I am not sure exactly what you mean.
I am guessing a deeper connection.
I try to take people as they are; some I have a less deep connection with.

PhoenixPhail · M

They may not have what it takes to do so.

YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M

Perhaps the person's anxiety of depths

Degbeme · 70-79, M

I`m not sure what you`re meaning here.

DancingStarGoddess ·

Talking in terms of romantic interest or platonic conversation? Could you clarify please? I'm afraid this is slightly ambiguous... Given the wording.

GoFish ·

you have to decide if you want to wait for them to reach your lvl if that is even possible or if they are just not the one for you..

swirlie · 31-35, F

Yes, that is when they psychologically plateau at a previously known stratum layer, below which they have never explored before, nor are they about to plunge below that layer for fear of their truth becoming over-exposed with the wrong person.