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Teslin · M
I feel bad for the baby !! I can't imagine someone not wanting their child. I hated when I was away from mine
sree251 · 41-45, M
@CharityRae
the father is an incredible dad and gets him every single weekend btw… He works Monday-Friday, only has off on the weekends but yet still gets the baby Friday night until Sunday night. He is wonderful. She thinks he’s a piece of crap. He isn’t — most fathers wouldn’t want to get their kid every single weekend. No free time for him whatsoever.

So, you are part of a broken home the baby has to live in. You love the kid, his father loves him. What the matter with you?
CharityRae · 36-40, F
@sree251 excuse me? You are a troll.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@CharityRae No, I'm not. I came from a broken home. My mom took me to live with her when I was three. There was a horrible tug of war over me. It went on for years till I was in high school. I have to say that my dad was an absolute ass even though he pampered me and won't let my mom have me outright.

Poor kid. Don’t let her take advantage of your kindness. It will never stop.
mrnature94 · 46-50, M
This isn't the first time she's expected you to watch him. Do food stamps get loaded at the beginning of the month? Does she get WIC money too? I know you love them both, but she is asking way too much of you. If I remember, this isn't the first time she's expected you and your Mom to watch him. Is he good with River?
CharityRae · 36-40, F
@mrnature94 yes he loves River. When I stay over at her apartment, the baby wakes up and she sleeps and ignores him… until she’s ready to get up at, like 12. It’s sad and I hate thinking of him there alone with her and getting hurt… I love him so much. The reason we agree to watch him so much is because we love that boy and worry about him when he isn’t with us.
mrnature94 · 46-50, M
@CharityRae Sounds like you're more emotionally invested in him than his own mother is!
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Oh no, that's not right. So she likes having the kid, but doesn't was the daily responsibilities of talking care of him...
Nooooooo...its her kid..give him back.
And food stamps and the baby daddy behibd on child support 😬...
You need to distance yourself from her problems...
sree251 · 41-45, M
@Midlifemale
You need to distance yourself from her problems...

You can say that again. Poor kid. God should have kept him in Paradise.
CharityRae · 36-40, F
@Midlifemale I watch him when I do because I love the kid. I worry about him when he is in her care. Sad, but true.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@CharityRae yeah. Does she just throw a pacifier at him and go about her day ignoring him ?
MrsRachelEvans · 31-35, F
You have a lot on your plate Ma'am!
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
Your cousin certainly has some nerve in asking you to babysit for that long.

When I got married, my wife's ex-boss was Matron of Honor.

On our honeymoon, my wife told me that we have to be back a few days early.

When I asked why, she said that her ex-boss wouldn't have come to our wedding unless we babysat the ex-boss' 11 year-old son, for the last three nights of our honeymoon.

So....I got the thrill of watching a bratty 11 year-old for the last weekend of our honeymoon.

No wonder my marriage lasted only 25 years.
Patty81 · 41-45, C
Great job on setting boundaries! It wouldn't be the last time if you said 'yes'
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Yeah she is just using you. Set her straight, you have a life too.
CharityRae · 36-40, F
@Degbeme I wouldn’t let her if I didn’t love her son so dang on much.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@CharityRae Your free time counts too.
GoFish ·
Some people have a lot of nerve .. poor kid 😐
CharityRae · 36-40, F
@GoFish I feel awful for him! He is such a joy… but the fact that she hasn’t seen him since Friday and is ok with not seeing him until Wednesday or Thursday??? And then he goes back to his dad’s on Friday. (His dad gets him every weekend)
GoFish ·
@CharityRae yeah that's not right of her at all 😒 😐 she needs to get her priorities straight 😤 😒

 
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