I do not hate men.
I loved my husband very much.
I have had men help me out when I needed something I couldn't do, but I will confess
I do not like tryanical men.
I think maybe instead of trying to gain worth explicitly from our femaleness or maleness perhaps we should just try to be very good people?
I think in the reverse also to blame everything on each other really doesn't help we have to live in a world with men and women in it and so it's probably best to learn to get along and not try to lord anything over each other.

men have always been cannon fodder

Yes. Don't go into the "manosphere" rabbit hole.

yes. The people who say they aren't are just sad men and those who prey on them.

yes