1. You will benefit in life, to never take personally posts, writing from a person, especially not face to face.

That saying "I will get you, before you get me" this can be a motto of insecure people, to cover their own insecurities.

We are all sensitive. ....
Then build up your worth of self, your self love.
You are your own anchor, your worth of self is your currency in life. Else with no self worth, you will always struggle with people's insensitivity.

To be
To be you, with your own worth...

Sadly, that's normal for SW.