People don't have to be negative nor take things that way. I wish people would consider the person may mean well and a lot differently than it sounds to them in text. Text has been what has made me lose some of my best friends, who assumed me as hurtful instead of calling or coming to me face to face to see what I mean. They left me hurt, feeling like they must have always been a fake friend if they couldn't work things out and talk like a grown up.