I feel guilty for not wanting her

Last night a woman contacted me from a online dating app I was shocked as no woman ever contacts me I am not that attractive. She showered me with compliments and was so kind and now she wants to date me, the thing is I am not really that into her like that its just its been years since a woman has talked to me or given me any kind of attention I was excited by that and reciprocated her compliments and now I am sort of ghosting her.

I feel bad she is nice and she is a good looking woman in her own way but I just don't feel anything for her and I kind of mislead her into thinking that I did.

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Elisbch · M

You could always go on a date and see if you have fun. Maybe keep an open mind?
It sounds like you could be just a little bit nervous. Break the ice, you might even tell her you haven't been out in a long time with someone else or had attention from a woman in a long time. Maybe not feeling anything for her is fueled by nervousness? Protecting yourself ? .... of course, I'm just guessing, I don't know. But it couldn't hurt to go. Go without expectations and you're more likely to have a good time. Just my 2 cents 🤷👍🏻