Casheyane · 31-35, F
You both deserve security. But girl, if you're willing to be all that to someone who can't commit, then can you imagine what you'll be like with someone who won't keep you second guessing?
Truth is, us girls tend to be sensitive. We like the attention. And sometimes to keep it, many of us compromise. Only you would know what you might or might not regret. The choices are yours to make simply because the consequences are yours to deal with.
But time is moving and it isn't something you can take back. Either you spend it with someone, or with another or with yourself.
I don't think there is a formula to relationships. But it takes two people to make it work, two people each with boundaries they may or may not be willing to compromise for the sake of being together but who would work on it anyway if it makes things work. But what I do know is you deserve stability and commitment.
You deserve to be with someone who doesn't keep you hanging.
Truth is, us girls tend to be sensitive. We like the attention. And sometimes to keep it, many of us compromise. Only you would know what you might or might not regret. The choices are yours to make simply because the consequences are yours to deal with.
But time is moving and it isn't something you can take back. Either you spend it with someone, or with another or with yourself.
I don't think there is a formula to relationships. But it takes two people to make it work, two people each with boundaries they may or may not be willing to compromise for the sake of being together but who would work on it anyway if it makes things work. But what I do know is you deserve stability and commitment.
You deserve to be with someone who doesn't keep you hanging.
I get the feeling you’re gonna wait around no matter what anyone says but in my experience it shouldn’t be this hard nor this confusing. I certainly wouldn’t wait around for him to decide what’s gonna happen in your life. I’d straight up tell him what you need, want and expect and let the chips fall where they may. If he can’t handle that then you have your answer.
juliem · 22-25, F
The real question is, should you mess with it? If you mess with it you might break it.. It could also go the other way and he will commit. Hard to say. Messing with it though, will force it one way or the other.
You could tell him you are thinking this FWB thing is not what you want, you want more, you want him. You want to keep him and be with him and not just sometimes, but forever.
You could tell him you are thinking this FWB thing is not what you want, you want more, you want him. You want to keep him and be with him and not just sometimes, but forever.
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GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
Cohen? I wouldn't.
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