Perhaps you and your intended spouse could agree it and others could be invited to offer advice should you choose to issue such an invitation.

Who will choose your wife? Your mother or both parents? I guess if she is not compatible with the family it will be on them and not you then.

Instead of just turning up and hoping for the best?

Good luck

An arranged marriage is nothing short of slavery.

😨 But what if they horrible in the sack? You stuck.