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Sometimes you have too choose over popularity and love unless he has red flags don’t listen to your friends they won’t last anyway

GoFish ·
i really don't know if you should or not.. you obviously want to stay with him but your friends are telling you no. why? are they seeing something you are not? 😳 does he look out for your best interest or do they? obviously you are attached and care about him idk what english has to do with anything.. is he good to you? because that's what matters .. are your friends right or wrong that's the question because they are the ones pushing you to split
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@GoFish Idk what’s right I’m not sure it’s as simple as that. I do want to go back to him but something is also stopping me
GoFish ·
@SparklyBubbles ah i see you have reservations yourself as well to being with him but you miss the connection and also have sympathy to him tho you don't deem him the best mate for you in the end?
Prince0217 · M
Do you see a future together? What kinda challenges do you envision. If you think you can overcome those together, then go for it. If you think that future with him would be difficult and it has a high probability of failing, then I'd say...If it's meant to fail, it rather fail fast and quickly.

[Sometimes when you ask such questions the answer may not be so appealing. ]
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@Prince0217 I don’t see a long term future with him no but I’m so young that I don’t think it’s a massive deal if I only see the next couple years with this person
Prince0217 · M
@SparklyBubbles Then it is important that you both are on the same page. If he perceives it differently (openly or discreetly), then he would be hurt. Just my thoughts.
My friends had been pushing me to do it for the past month some of them even giving me silent treatment till I complied.

You have really bad friends.
ArtieKat · M
Is there a compromise to be had, @SparklyBubbles? Maintaining a low-key friendship but both being free to date other people, and not having him interacting with your sceptical friends?
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@ArtieKat I think it would crush me to be his friend
ArtieKat · M
@SparklyBubbles OK, I'm afraid only you can resolve your dilemma. If you want to chat privately I'd be quite happy to act as a sounding-board/devil's advocate
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@ArtieKat thank you
pdockal · 56-60, M
Only you can decide
Take advice from friends but that shouldn't be the only reason to stay or go
@ that age most males are very immature
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@pdockal yeah I’ve realised the decision has to come from me there’s a just a slight problem I seem unable to make one
pdockal · 56-60, M
@SparklyBubbles

Adulting isn't easy
We've all been in similar situations
Pretzel · 70-79, M
what you have is what you'll get

doesn't sound like a person to build a life with
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@SparklyBubbles you get used to things - whether they are good or bad - do you have a grasp of what you really like about him?

is it just that he's familiar? and you don't want to go through the whole dating thing to find another boyfriend?
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@Pretzel I do know what I like about him and Yh definitely going through the whole meeting someone thing again doesn’t sound grand
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@SparklyBubbles well whichever way you go - I wish you the best!
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