I learnt this lesson and now I'm staying single until I find the ones for me. Trust is really important to me in relationships. I need to know for certain the person I'm sleeping with won't go blabbing to my partner and ruining our relationship

Deciding to choose yourself is not terrible, it's the best outcome but the time before that when you're grieving is some of the worst. I took two years for the worst one before

It took me 8 years to recover.