knowing how big of a dick you can be

A couple of neurons

I think it really starts with seeing both yourself and others as equals.

Considering someone's feelings.

liking yourself

Thoughtfulness.

learning to listen

Empathy

Empathy

Mindfulness

Nature . You're born kind or not . There are some little kids that are naturally kind. Some kids were mean to others. When there was no rules , so society etiquette to care about.
But even people with unkind nature can control their urges to not be rude.

There is no step. You give of yourself without thought.

Humbleness and acknowledging one's mistakes.

Idk i forgot 🙂

Starts with being sincere and genuine. Then there will be other stuff needed as well. Empathy is a good thing to possess for one.

Destroying the other side utterly and completely, then demanding people be nice to the rulers.😤

Rewinding before you return the tape?

getting hit in the head

Not expecting kindness in return

putting down the machete

Watch kind people. Do what they do.

Buying me gifts...😬

Lose your ego.

Marijuana

Caring.