@Justmeraeagain I have 3 voice mail messages her daughter gave me so I can hear her voice.

@Gibbon I unfortunately ,do not I was in the habit of deleting them to make more room, not a mistake I'd make now, but it's a little too late.
That would be a treasure glad you have it

@Justmeraeagain they're just short messages to her daughter when she missed her mom's call. Yeah I did the same thing as you and wish I had kept them because she was talking to me. I can only say it never goes away but it does get easier to live with. I'm not a social person in the real world but I took every chance to talk about her and our story especially when the two times I was in the hospital. It was very therapeutic for me

@ChipmunkErnie I'm really sorry that's got to be hard.

@Justmeraeagain Not easy, for sure. But it got to the point we just couldn't care for her at home. She needs someone awake and aware of what she's doing 24 hours a day.

@Chern0bylplaygr0unds Or they are deluded; I have a relative who thinks she can talk to the dead.
She offered.
I turned her down, and she was offended, so now she will not talk to me.
I don't believe in that crap, and even if I did, I find it pretty arrogant that she or anybody else believes my husband would talk to her/them before he'd talk to me.
And I don't need to hear from someone out there, "It doesn't work that way"