So you are, what, trying to claim that it's not a word with a definition now because of it's origin? I'm giving you a clear path to modify your position to something less provably false. You should take it. ☺

It is a word with a definition in the dictionary, that is losing it from being overused now as a blanket term. And that in my personal case when I hear it from people with certain views, it is more a good sign that an insult.

That's fine, how it makes you feel is not really relevant. All that is relevant is whether you fit the definition of the term. If you are comfortably outside of that definition then you should be able to engage with the term on a case by case basis rather than trying to invalidate it completely.