There's nothing like someone who wants to mentor kids. But hey if your okay with all of the responsiblity, adopt a kid. But if not mentoring is like being a volunteer parent, a reminder to the kids that there is some one indeed. So, you are being true to you, and to someone else. Face it caring for kids are a job almost a full time responsibility that takes time effort emotional energy and money. If you think its you, go for it. But if you have a career, and dig your vocation, that might be your path in life too?