Protect yourself.... She may take his side although he's the one hitting on you

Maybe that's his way of getting rid of you out of your friendship with her....A sneaky move on his part.....Don't tell her, she would disown you for sure.... Deal with him directly.

They wouldn't break up but our friendship might. We've all known each other almost 30 years and he decides to be creepy in his old age lol

I smiled ,asked her was she nuts ,but ,if she was ever single look me up LOL
He was cheating on her ,,its was killing me ,,he was a dumb ass
She was fine and sweet
But I get it ,I screwed up with my wife too

Back when I was married many of my buddies wives hit on me

When I was single ,,not one of them to be found LOL

My weakness used to be woman period ,but now I have carried enough guilt

I say I am flattered ,,but I don't act on it ,,but I don't tell either

My buddy would not believe me if I did ,and it would end our friendship

If he found out later ,,especially if she told it ,,,

I would tell him just that ,I knew he would not believe me and it would more then likely ruin our friendship ,,,now its up to him ,,,does he want to lose me too

I know how it is ,my first wife cheated ,,when people told me
I was just like my Dad ,I didn't want to hear that
Now I know why Dad got mad when people ratted out Mom

You make excuses for them and play stupid

I'm a little flirty soooo

I’m a flirt so I’d probably be a bit on the not so innocent side but I’d draw the line when something physical could happen.

Honestly, tough situation. Better thing is avoid visiting them frequently.

I wd accept

What do you want or prefer?

I have a rule. Three things not to do in life. 1wifes friends 2 friends wives. 3 in-laws.

Well, I will feel great that someone finds me attractive and will play along. But I guess I will make sure that I draw line before anything physical happens 😊

🤔 would depend on my relationship with the friend. I'd possibly just tell the spouse that hit on me it was inappropriate and if it happened again I'd tell on them.

Is a friend spouse hit on me and i was married to beautiful gal like you id definitely tell you hopefully you believe me

Probably some tasteful flirty back. Just to play around.

Gotta tell them. Not sure I know how to approach... but gotta tell them.

Maybe telling your friend will strengthen your relationship.

Tell my friend and avoid their spouse forever.

I don't know what to say and it is very delicate.lol

I would tell them.... to do it again! 😄

Let it happen

Probably avoid them. That’s an ugly situation, you can almost assume you’ve lost the friendship when that happens. Even if you [b]tell[/b] they’re unlikely to believe (or [b]want[/b] to believe) you over him. 😒

Honestly, a tough one, especially if you think it could break them up.