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How do you differentiate between good or bad ?

Have you ever found yourself neutral in a situation ?

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RemovedUsername754069 · 100+, F

Anyone that can’t mind their own businezzzzzzzzzz 1st, and intending to harass, blame, shade or manipulate otherz FIRST becauze they’re ignorant, arrogant, nosey, immature, annoying, inconsiderate, jealous, insecure, desperate, stubborn, boring, lame, threaten, attention-seeking, self-hating n more.
Ppl dat take their hate and abusez upon otherzz minding their own businezz 1st are plain pathetic/shameful. Blaming otherzzz for their mistakezz r dumb n irresponsible.
Theyre in denial of the truthz becuz
dey can’t handle the truthzz, so theyre incapable of changezzz.

Ppl can do watevrrrr in their own freedom-space.
W/e ppl do in their Own businesszz IDC
Just don’t force me/otherzzz To change for them in our own freedom-space

DOnt like someone?
I nevrrrr waste time with dem FIRST. Ignore, block or mute. Eazzyyy n no drama

LadyGrace ·

Your conscience will tell you that. It’s not hard.

Calmsoul · 31-35, M

@LadyGrace so does that imply that everyone has a different conscience cause what is bad for someone is not bad for other guy

BoobooSnafu

@Calmsoul @Calmsoul Depends....some people don't listen to their conscience ....they might judge you with their ego, or use judgement to control you.....everyone has a different 'level' of conscience.....and some have none at all.

LadyGrace ·

@Calmsoul That would depend on a lot of things, like individual perception, how a person was raised, brain chemistry, etc.

KayraJordyn · F

I find myself overly capable of understanding many different points of view at once. Too much so. I feel a lot, and I have to remember its not my job to try to identify with everyone, but to be kind regardless of how they identify themselves.

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KayraJordyn · F

Which part?

SW-User

@Calmsoul For me, yes

BoobooSnafu

@KayraJordyn I do something similar....I look at all perspectives ....to see all possible affects.
Bt sometimes I just end confused, and can't decide.😫

SW-User

Sadly there are a lot of people who don’t know the difference between right or wrong ( upbringing plays a big part ) others just choose to sit on the fence because it makes life easier for them and sometimes keeping out of an argument is for the best to allow others to deal with it themselves

It’s all circumstantial and personal moral compass.

Calmsoul · 31-35, M

@SW-User my sense says its more of personal moral compass as there have been many examples in our history where certain personalities have fought against their environment in which they were brought up & stood for something they thought were right

SW-User

Arent all situations neutral until someone places judgement?

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SW-User

@KayraJordyn true because judgement is often something people are predisposed to and not something that follows as a choice which making it inevitable

SW-User

@KayraJordyn I think he means if something happens to one, and it can happen to anyone, there should be no reason to judge differently

SW-User

@KayraJordyn I don't feel all situations are created equally, I really don't but I play missive until I hear words in understanding

ButterRobot · 51-55, M

90% of the time you just know. For the remaining 10%, if i find myself making excuses to justify it then i know its bad.

Calmsoul · 31-35, M

@ButterRobot senseful

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

It’s how I feel. Some days are really good while others can be bad and sometimes it just meh.

SW-User

I am mostly neutral.
I don't see things in black and white. I look at the intentions and consequences.

SW-User

if you want a balanced soviety then you ensure every new born has access to education and healthcare, what one earns/is given to possess rightfully can't be taken away by force, everyone is equal to the law. Based on these you make laws and whatever is illegal now is bad. Things which are impossible to judge based on such laws are neither good or bad as such attributes don't matter for them

SW-User

I taste it.

Calmsoul · 31-35, M

@SW-User interesting

MzChatterbox · 41-45, F

I’d say a neutral situation is when you are not interested or have no investment involved

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BoobooSnafu

@MzChatterbox ....or Confusion......that can make me neutral....dont know what is right....so I choose caution and sometimes do nothing.

MzChatterbox · 41-45, F

Potentially if one is invested physically/emotionally/spirituality/financially one expects a desired outcome so there is no stead for being neutral

BoobooSnafu

@MzChatterbox Hmmm.....idealy - that would be true. But I have found myself in situations where I know the best course of action....but it's not been within my power to achieve it.

Or situations where someone is working against you. you know what is the right thing to do.....but you also know that someone is going to step in and destroy all your efforts.
I don't think all situations are black and white. I wish they were.

SW-User

Wellbeing! If something conflicts or enhances our own or someone else's well-being we decide whether it is good or bad. There are benign occasions (nuetral) these are usually decided on effort required.