@Tallie Things tend to become very clear when you think about losing everything you have. You see what means the most to you, definitely.

@ZenKitzune I e come a long way from all that, although I do question my existence a lot as I still feel a bit purposeless., I also forgot to mention I did have an ulcer mid last year and then I had another examination a few months later and wanted to do a further check for tumors, but it came up all clear,but my ulcer expanded because I was too depressed to fix it.

@SW-User the pressure to have purpose in life is half the problem. Purposelessness is given a bad name in western society, in some places it's seen as a great thing. I think we are forced to live in a way that's not natural to us and then told that it's we who have the problem.

@ZenKitzune I defs agree 110%

me too!

@SW-User one day you must tell me about it.

@therighttothink50 I will in a pm

@blendednotshaken It can be a very useful experience, shame most of us only have it when it's too late.

@Wiseoldman and yet it does not have the same effect as when death is at your door.

@ZenKitzune But maybe it should.