There's no secret about it. It's when we become too obsessed with ourselves that we begin seeing too many mistakes and criticizing ourselves. We are fine just as we are. And the sooner we realize that, the better. It just means you're cool with who you are. You might make a lot of mistakes or even do stupid stuff, but you are who you are and that's just the way it is. We don't have to fit in. All we have to do is be ourselves. It's when we start worrying about what everybody else thinks or what they do, or how they dress, or what they think of us, that messes up our head. We don't have to be perfect. All we have to do is be ourselves. That's good enough. Never ever change for anyone. That is, just to please them. If we don't love ourselves, no one else will. Don't give people the right to approve or disapprove. If you do, not only will you be miserable all your life, you will become a people pleaser. There's nothing more miserable than that. Be your own best friend. Love yourself. That's the best gift you could ever give yourself. And never compromise your beliefs. Celebrate who you are. There's only one you.

I'm working on it.

It's the hardest for me..

It comes with time. For example I used to hate my nose but then I saw others with similar noses and realized there's nothing wrong with it. Same with your own qualities.

Well, it's the "Serenity Prayer". I accept the things I cannot change and try to change the things I can. I'm crazy enough as it is, I need to accept myself as much as possible to maintain some semblance of sanity.

For the most part, yes.