Are you looking or waiting?
You need to get out there, talk to people, visit others posts, look around and engage.
Writing the same post over and over and waiting for others to come to you doesn't give you much to choose from.

Here??

What is a genuine man? Do you mean Heterosexual? Maybe you need someone that is religious, they seem to be kind of like that.. maybe.
Like a librarian sorta, never doing anything fun, just kinda watching TV and going to church regularly.

you asked/said the same thing 3 hours ago....what's next?

Displaying yourself like a perfume offer on social media waiting for someone to buy you is the only way to find a good man.

Avoid the jokers then.. 😏