Well

We are all more than our weakest / worse / least sightly bits. We are bodies, minds, hearts, souls--but also what we do/model in action, say/model in speech, think/model in thought, feel/model in emotions...and how we respond to each other is part of the constellation of things that make us who we are.

It's easy to obsess about the "off" bits, the tattered parts and overlook the effect of the WHOLE pattern of our existence / being...

So be kinder towards your self, bc you need to step back and see more of the whole, not bend in and see just some infinitesimal speck.

You are more than the sum of the things you don't like‐‐so much more.

ew look at the dad bod 😆