What is a reason people would avoid you if it's not appearance related? They don't know you...

Ive been told i put off a unfriendly vibe which makes me unapproachable

DoubleRings · 51-55, F

They heard bad things. They saw something on social media about you. Googled you and didn’t like what they read. You have a friend in common that isn’t well liked. They are prejudiced against some trait they know you have. They are anti-social or have social anxiety. They don’t want to engage anyone at all, not something specific about you. They are depressed or overwhelmed by something in their life.

There’s tons of reasons.

iamnikki · 31-35, F

not a smiley person.

Iwillwait · M

Reputation or background

nofreymc · 31-35, F

I tend to avoid people if I feel we have a clash of personalities to avoid confrontation

ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F

Difference of opinion?

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

Maybe he or she is shy, judges to quick! Unfriendly, maybe they have certain type of people he or she only wants to interact with. Have different opinions and such that some hate and or dislike that. Maybe could be other reasons.

I talk and want to know others but I am shy. Some do not like me coz I am shy, speak my mind, might not be pretty to all, people JUDGE me BEFORE KNOWING ME! I might seem "weird", my opinions make some not wanna know me even so called friend(s) since 20 fucking 20 happened people have become colder and not accepting of different opinions..lost one or two friendships coz of that (on their part though as they blocked and or harassed me) while I was nice and kind.

Also some might judge on what I do and or say..like if I go to a festival or out at weekend I might dance 💃🏼 weird to them and I drink alcohol to be able to dance and maybe talk and have fun which some might dislike 🤷🏼‍♀️

CardiacKintsugi · 61-69, F

They decided our vibes don't connect. Their friends don't think you are part of the group because of something you did or they heard. There's just something about you they don;t dig.

DreamyCrush · F

They are shy, unfriendly, don't need my help, have no desire to know me, or someone told them some untruth about me.

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Lilnonames · F

I don't put up with BS