I am in the middle of a heated argument with my oldest daughter, she is going to get married on Aug 16th, this will be her 2nd marriage and she is only 26, the guy she is getting married to is a punk and talks with all this attitude and he swears and disrespects people at will, my predicament is that I don't approve of my daughter gettting married to this guy and refuse to go to the wedding, no way will I give my daughter up to this guy, for one, he's told me he doesn't like me and I've actually pinned him up against a house and threatened to put him in the hospital if he didn't stop seeing my daughter, I don't know what she see's in this guy, he is a pharmacutical salesman and she works in a salon/day spa, she's telling me if I don't walk her down the isle she'll disown me, now I don't know what to do, call he bluff or swallow my pride and give my daughter to this punk?