BananaSpider · 22-25, F
Were they really a friend in that case?

SW-User
She just text me and said she hasn't forgotten about me but has to make time for him. But for the past few weeks, every single day has been time for him.
BananaSpider · 22-25, F
I know a girl like that, she's always with her bf and when he goes off to do something with his friends, she gets really mad even though she could just hang out with her friends. He's the only thing she talks about and I realise that she really doesn't have many friends.

SW-User
@BananaSpider: Yeah i've lost a lot of friends myself.

SW-User
Just gotta wait it out a bit. The chase will keep your friend busy for awhile.
Truth.
TestingLimitations · 31-35, M
Wait. It'll pass.

SW-User
I think i'll just move on instead. I am sick of waiting for people to make time for me.
TestingLimitations · 31-35, M
Also a good choice.
Mondayschild · F
Stay in close touch maybe she is just busy with the new bf-- dont give up- she will need you when all of this is over and it will be in time
View 1 more replies »
Mondayschild · F
@Ballisticboy: Im sorry but keep texting

SW-User
She asked when do I want to hang out so now i'm sitting here looking desperate. I told her when I get paid we can go to the movies lol. Ugh...idk anymore. I try my best to keep a steady head but damn this is hard.
Mondayschild · F
@Ballisticboy: Maybe give her a taste of her own medicine and take someone else-- woorks everytime
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment
diogenes · 70-79, M
OHHH WAH WAH BOO HOO BOO HOOO! Get a grip will ya?

SW-User
Sorry I can't read that. My "ignore the rude comments" meter is still working.
diogenes · 70-79, M
@Ballisticboy: Ah..but you did...you know you did...or...you NEVER would have commented on it...
Mhello · 56-60, F
listen to music and hope your fiend does not move on with out you. It does happen
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment

SW-User
This is irl actually lol
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment

SW-User
Okay. Introvert life here I come.
bijouxbroussard · F
I'm generally annoyed with people whose habit is to dump their friends when they have a new romantic interest. Your options are to wait and see, or quietly put her in the category of folks you can't count on. Then, if statistics play out and things crash and burn, you can decide if you want to help pick up the pieces.

SW-User
She claims she is making time for him but making time for someone doesn't mean you completely forget about the existence of the one who has been your friend since the beginning of highschool. And for a guy she just met too. This is all so cliche. I try to keep a level head but my fear of being left is making it hard to focus. I just need to...be calm.
bijouxbroussard · F
@Ballisticboy: If this is atypical behavior you might go do your own thing but not write her off completely. If this a first all-consuming love for her it may take a while before she has her wits about her again.
This comment is hidden.
Show Comment

SW-User
lol
Get yourself one. So y'all can crush on chicks together. 😏

SW-User
She's a girl and I don't prefer "chicks" 😜 lmao