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BananaSpider ยท 22-25, F
Were they really a friend in that case?
SW-User
She just text me and said she hasn't forgotten about me but has to make time for him. But for the past few weeks, every single day has been time for him.
BananaSpider ยท 22-25, F
I know a girl like that, she's always with her bf and when he goes off to do something with his friends, she gets really mad even though she could just hang out with her friends. He's the only thing she talks about and I realise that she really doesn't have many friends.
SW-User
@BananaSpider: Yeah i've lost a lot of friends myself.

SW-User
Just gotta wait it out a bit. The chase will keep your friend busy for awhile.
Truth.
TestingLimitations ยท 31-35, M
Wait. It'll pass.
SW-User
I think i'll just move on instead. I am sick of waiting for people to make time for me.
TestingLimitations ยท 31-35, M
Also a good choice.
Mondayschild ยท F
Stay in close touch maybe she is just busy with the new bf-- dont give up- she will need you when all of this is over and it will be in time
Mondayschild ยท F
@Ballisticboy: Im sorry but keep texting
SW-User
She asked when do I want to hang out so now i'm sitting here looking desperate. I told her when I get paid we can go to the movies lol. Ugh...idk anymore. I try my best to keep a steady head but damn this is hard.
Mondayschild ยท F
@Ballisticboy: Maybe give her a taste of her own medicine and take someone else-- woorks everytime
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diogenes ยท 70-79, M
OHHH WAH WAH BOO HOO BOO HOOO! Get a grip will ya?
SW-User
Sorry I can't read that. My "ignore the rude comments" meter is still working.
diogenes ยท 70-79, M
@Ballisticboy: Ah..but you did...you know you did...or...you NEVER would have commented on it...
Mhello ยท 56-60, F
listen to music and hope your fiend does not move on with out you. It does happen
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SW-User
This is irl actually lol
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SW-User
Okay. Introvert life here I come.
bijouxbroussard ยท F
I'm generally annoyed with people whose habit is to dump their friends when they have a new romantic interest. Your options are to wait and see, or quietly put her in the category of folks you can't count on. Then, if statistics play out and things crash and burn, you can decide if you want to help pick up the pieces.
SW-User
She claims she is making time for him but making time for someone doesn't mean you completely forget about the existence of the one who has been your friend since the beginning of highschool. And for a guy she just met too. This is all so cliche. I try to keep a level head but my fear of being left is making it hard to focus. I just need to...be calm.
bijouxbroussard ยท F
@Ballisticboy: If this is atypical behavior you might go do your own thing but not write her off completely. If this a first all-consuming love for her it may take a while before she has her wits about her again.
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SW-User
lol
Get yourself one. So y'all can crush on chicks together. ๐Ÿ˜
SW-User
She's a girl and I don't prefer "chicks" ๐Ÿ˜œ lmao

 
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