Upsidedown · 36-40, M
Talking about their ex
swandfriends · 41-45, F
I never understood why this is an issue for some people. If a person was with someone for an extended time, I'm sure there will be funny stories, or just some info they want to share. The ex will at some point come up in a conversation. And what if this "ex" died. I'm sure they will want to talk about it.
ScrewThisImDone · 26-30, F
He wants/has kids, no thank you.

SW-User
@ScrewThisImDone Yeah, kids are a big no for me too
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yogibooboo · M
Smoking
Alifeinterrupted · 26-30, F
@yogibooboo absolutely!!

SW-User
Talking badly about themselves. It's like you're trying to sell your partner on not dating you!
carsonfry · 22-25, M
Adopting self destructive habits to try to gain favor. I guess maybe it is better described as lack of self-respect.

SW-User
If he says something demeaning about you in front of others to be funny.😬
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
Can’t eat very much pizza

SW-User
Lack of respect for themselves and others.
MARTAisback · 22-25, F
No money
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Insecurity.
DDonde · 31-35, M
They're not interested.
Alifeinterrupted · 26-30, F
@DDonde kinda?? Lol..smh its absolutely true..although it isn't for some people. For me, I've been secretly in love with my female manager @ work for almost a year and she doesn't know but ik shes married and has a child and definitely ain't gay so I know I stand ABSOLUTELY NO CHANCE..that doesn't stop me from fantasizing about her one bit
DDonde · 31-35, M
@Alifeinterrupted I might fantasize about someone I can't have, but if they actually dislike me, that'll be a big turnoff. I guess that's what I meant.
Alifeinterrupted · 26-30, F
@DDonde ohhhh yes I totally get it!! Cuz I guess if she found out I loved her and told me off..I'd be Devastated and probably wouldn't want to see her again so I totally see ur point
saintsong · 41-45, F
a pervert