Yes it’s mean.

Lot of red flags here.

If nothing else. Selfish.😔😒🤗

Selfish

did u tell him directly why you're upset? I know he should've known why but still men are usually clueless.

He just sounds complacent in the relationship.

It happens over time

Yeah, sounds like he's distracted by other things, and doesn't consider you enough

get revenge, sleep with his best friend