Have you ever had friends that forces you to go out places with you?

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yes so many times

nope

sometimes

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Even when I have a tiring day from work especially on a Friday night my friends always sometimes called me up and asked me if I want to go clubbing or Casino. I'll always try to make up excuses but they can already see that I'm not being honest and they can tell I'm making excuses and they get fed up. Even though if I really do have something to do they don't believe me sometimes. So my best friend called me up and asked why I was doing and I was told her nothing much and I got home from work. Then she told me that us girl going to have a girls night out at the club and I'm coming with them and she's not taking no for an answer. And then I was like okay I'll go. I don't really want to go but I didn't want them to keep bugging me and pestering me until I give in.

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Dionysus · 41-45, F

Not anymore, but I miss those friends that came over when my phone was unplugged and knocked on my door and forced me to go out when all I wanted to do was curl under the sheets. Doesn’t happen anymore.

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Dionysus · 41-45, F

Some of the best times of my life and I had no idea. I’m an introvert, but it’s not always in our best interest to spend so much time on our own even if it’s our comfort zone. @EmotionalMotherlessWoman1988

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SW-User

If I don't wanna I just say no.

And I don't go. 🤷‍♀️

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SW-User

@EmotionalMotherlessWoman1988 how would they force me 🤨

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Lostpoet · M

Yes. I can usually think of an excuse.

SW-User

Yes! My one friend always forces me to come out to the bar or club, or on vacation, etc. It's nice, but sometimes I get so anxious.

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SW-User

@EmotionalMotherlessWoman1988 it can be, but it's also afforded me some of my life's best experiences

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

They obviously like having you around, which is nice.

gmatthewb · 51-55, M

I could only wish for friends like that

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gmatthewb · 51-55, M

@EmotionalMotherlessWoman1988 Be nice to have someone care enough to want me to go out anywhere. From 2002 until 2015 I had nobody even ask me to go out anywhere or that wanted to spend time with me other than my children. So, yeah, I would kind of like to have someone force me to go out some where.

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gmatthewb · 51-55, M

@EmotionalMotherlessWoman1988 I agree that you are lucky in that way. But I think you can complain about it all you wish because I can also understand that some times you might want to stay in like you have pointed out a few times. You can't always be expected to go out.

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