@badapple We became very good friends on another Q&A site. Nothing romantic. I traveled overseas to meet him, his wife and family but he stood me up, left me sitting in my hotel lobby, then only sent an email with some lame excuse about a work commitment. To this day, I don't know the true story.

im sorry that happened to you, did that make it harder for you to trust others online?

@badapple It's certainly made me more cautious but it was a learning experience and I still won't close my mind to possibility. 🙂

@Swann seriously? how did you find out and what happened when they knew you knew