You have to make it be the way you want it.

to Poly- Wow.. That's horrible and shocking. I hope that things are much better for you now and you overcame the obvious trauma such events must cause😱

Sorry Poly

My (eww) grandfather dropped my mother and her twin sister off at the Howard Johnson in Secaucus NJ when they were 13. He said he never wanted to see them again. I was 10 when he died. He was a horrible child molester of his 6 daughter's. I'm glad he is not on this planet any longer. The world id a better place without him.