The sure ways are ....

Eyes
Tennis sneakers
Cleavage
Little black dresses
Ability to lose at darts
Tight jeans
Fragrance
Smile
... and all ladies who like offshore power boats

I am here on this question looking for answers

Lmao if someone makes me laugh enough, I'm basically hooked whether I realise or not. Other things include book taste, ability to hold a conversation and how "weird" people are. This isn't even just for crushes. This is how I find friends loool

Hmm...she's good looking (whatever that means for me) and has a silly personality...then I go...🤔...😻

Also if they're one of the very few people who talk to you.

I just feel like we are part of the same pea pod just in separate pods.

Tragedy

codependency

Usually their personalities. I've dated some guys and when I look back after we're finished I think wow...🤢😖 but he probably thinks the same about me to so ohwell....

Make me laugh, or intrigue me.
Except the cute bag boys, I'm old and I'm supposed to crush on them. It fits my dirty old lady persona.

I think it's different for everyone but for me it's usually what I start to see in the personality

A combination of all those things and many more.

A combination of all the above.

all the shit you said pretty much