Ultimately ourselves. Others might have an impact but at the end of the day even if we don't like the choices presented to us, we still have a choice.

I ain't the one to believe in destiny

This guy 👉🐨 but when he's on his days off I like to believe I am, yet it seems unpredictable coincidences are in charge most of the time...

I'm as much in control as a human can be. The rest is fate I guess.

I, myself 😎

Doug

I am