Being able to tolerent, keeo things to yourself and be intuitive.

Nothing really. The opposite of that word is used to put other people down.

Depends on the context

Who knows, the way I look at it is this. There isn't really all that much that separates us from the wolves and sheep.

When I use it I might mean someone I could count on for opinion etc

I think there are many different meanings for it.

to set a good example

It means your dreams have disappeared

to behave in a jaded, soulless way while saying smart things