Honestly? As a not-so-attractive person myself (not sure I'd go so far as to call myself ugly, have not had too much trouble with it tbh but I ain't no model or anything) I think the most important thing in someone is personality. Physical attraction is all good and what not, but its not all there is to it. And since preferences differ, what's ugly to you might be beautiful to me :P my point being tho, I have been head over heels in love with a girl before who was not used to getting the attention of boys because she was still in that awkward phase of teen years and not quite grown into herself yet, and not what anyone would call the modern beauty standard. I first found 1 thing in her that attracted my attention, and then her personality just stole my heart. Dated her for almost a year before life got too complicated for a relationship and we had to end it sadly :P My first time ever being truly in love 😂 There's a lot more to a person than their looks :) There are guys and girls out there who are able to love you for who you are, you just need to look in the right place ^^