ColaLover · 26-30, F
Let people get close to you, but don't get close to other people. That way, it doesn't hurt when they leave you, because you weren't close to them.

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Because you make their time here more bearable.
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@Hugosfbay I had some beef with owl but now I feel he's a nice guy, just misunderstood
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Miram · 31-35, F
Learning about ourselves, about other people's perspectives and from their experiences.
It's because nothing lasts forever that it is valuable. Better cherich it while you still have it .
It's because nothing lasts forever that it is valuable. Better cherich it while you still have it .
Most do go, some stay, just gotta make good choices with who you invest your time and emotions with. i do find myself guarded, but i have not completely closed myself off. i dont want to become that person.
WildHeart · 41-45, F
Amongst those that come and go will be someone who will stay because they want to no matter how rough the tide gets they will ride each wave side by side with you.

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You can only learn certain things about people and indirectly yourself when you interact closely with someone tearing down your own walls.
Owl!... perk up! 🤗... the point is pleasure!
You wouldn't ignore a beautiful flower just cause it only blooms for one day!
You wouldn't ignore a beautiful flower just cause it only blooms for one day!

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@bethsmiles but in one day you cant make any real connection to the flower
@SW-User I'll think bout what you've said.
@SW-User ok :)... I thought bout it...maybe it's perspective.
1. if you are ok with just enjoy'n what that flower can give/for the time it can give/ then you can make a connection.
2. if you want more than the flower can give/for a longer time than it can give it/ then a connection is impossible.
with #1, you get a happy visit and a good memory.
with #2, you don't get anything.
so, we're both right!... It's perspective 😏
1. if you are ok with just enjoy'n what that flower can give/for the time it can give/ then you can make a connection.
2. if you want more than the flower can give/for a longer time than it can give it/ then a connection is impossible.
with #1, you get a happy visit and a good memory.
with #2, you don't get anything.
so, we're both right!... It's perspective 😏

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That will happen throughout your whole life. Just try learning to live in/for the moment 'cause that's all you have, really. And, don't hold high expectations for anything in general.
LadyWioness · 56-60, F
Because they add joy to your life while they're in it.
sogdianrock · 61-69, M
hi theowl
You can pick a pocket or two?
Best wishes
:)
You can pick a pocket or two?
Best wishes
:)
MellyMel22 · F
I know..
DragonShadow8980 · 31-35
I know the feeling.. Shake my head too.
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
Some stay😁😍😁

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@Zeusdelight hardly ever
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
That's not never. Sometimes, lot of work!
OrangeLettuce · 46-50, F
Bec we r incorrigible fools