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Its sad how the same ppl i take the initiative to help without them even asking i have to keep asking to do me one small(but imp) fucking favor

PissFun · 61-69, M
Like they get a kick out of you having to beg, I hate that and my door is closed permanently to those that do that to me!!
celine211 · 18-21, F
[@7948,PissFun] and i'm not one to ask for much cause i hate it
PissFun · 61-69, M
[@564024,celine211] I know how you feel, I usually sense that someone needs help and I often offer it (or just do it) without them having to ask, thus sparing their pride and dignity. I'll learn one day . . . . maybe
swirlie · 31-35, F
That's because you maintain a 'conditional' friendship with those people. This means that your personal friendship is not authentic. This is also the reason nobody wants to help you, because you have an expectation OF them that they owe you big-time. Bad way to go through life!
gmatthewb · 46-50, M
Reminds me of what my mother always used to say, give them an inch and they will take a mile. Good for you for being kind enough to offer help in the first place though.
celine211 · 18-21, F
[@557876,gmatthewb] that's what friends are supposed to do but i don't know
gmatthewb · 46-50, M
[@564024,celine211] You're right, that is what friends are for.
curiosi · 56-60, F
It's a very difficult lesson. Just because you would help anyone they will be the same.

 
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