I’m really worried about my friend? My best friend is having a really hard time lately. She’s...

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My best friend is having a really hard time lately. She’s in a lot of really hard classes, she’s been having family issues, etc. tonight, she went out with some friends. I had snap chatted her around 7 p.m., and she’s usually pretty good about...

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NyaNya · 31-35, F

You have done enough in my opinion.
You were concerned about her, worried and even apologized, even though it was unnecessary.
Give her some time.

SW-User

Give her space. That's all you can do at the moment. Imo.

SW-User

I think the first thing you should do is talk to her face to face in person. Ask her how is she recently; does she need someone to share her thought with; is there anything she wants to say or to do; how does she feel at the moment. Carefully listen to her and comfort her if she is feeling down.

That's all I could think of. 😗

Montanaman · M

You don't need someone giving you a hard time with this post. Just continue to be her friend, support her, and let her know that she can talk to you about anything, anytime. 👍👍🤗🤗

english · 56-60, M

I would give her ,her space let her have time to think about it all, let her her know your there for her but dont push it, what ever it is she isnt ready to share at this point, you have respect that , idk what family issues she having ,but all you can do right now is be there for her. good luck hun .

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

She knows you were only worried about her.
Probably feels a bit guilty she put her friend through it unnecessarily.
She'll come around.

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

Be patient and try to be there for her. Sometimes when youre in the depth of your own misery you cant see the people around you that are there for you. You cant see much of anything other than your own problems.

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sabrinarose · 26-30, F

Never claimed to know anything. I’m just worried that something is wrong. @PainfulTruth

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@PainfulTruth She is 21 and she is old enough to know what she is doing. After all, every adult used to be kids and facing problems is the way we learn and grow. It is okay to not know something. But instead of waiting for 20 years to finally gain the lesson of life, why don't we gain it during that 20 years of life?

Everybody has a different experience. What we've gone through will never be the same as what others have gone through.

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