@nevergiveup i have tried and tried I'm still working on trying to be calmer but the 5-year-old just loves to push and push not just me her sisters too and we did that they cry then go back to do whatever the hell they were going. the oldest one is even in counseling because the school is having problems with her, and they say that she is very smart and has a grate understanding of her emotions and have never have a problem. i tell her what going on here at home and at school she is surprised