i have only talked to girls but i guess there are boys but they wont admit to it

I hope the answer to your question is no.

You mean child abuse?

You behave perfectly. I am sure you are no different from your friends. Your parents choose to cane you, but that just means that they choose to cane you, not that you are badly behaved or a bad youth.

Ok. Of course I don't want you to get caned at all. But I think the more you consider alternatives the more likely it is that you will discover something that will put an end to all this pain.
You are a good guy, erik2000.

i did my best at your age and still got the belt and when i had my 4 kids it seamed every week one of them was over my knee lol

It wouldn't work. First, any friend's parents would call my parents. Second after a week I'd get a very bad caning or even two.

i left home at 17 as i had a good job and mum said as long as you live here you will live by the rules and i just had enough

@ernsetcharles: But when I come home, I'd get it even harder. I tried to run away when I was younger but it didn't work.

some i talk to on here are 21 + and still get the belt. I think at that age you have the choice to take it or say no

Just stay out of the house when you are supposed to be being spanked. They can't punish you, if you are not there.

@EvieB: I mean corporal punishment in general. It is not necessarily abuse.

Find a friend to stay with. Leave for a week. They would soon get the message.

@nevergiveup: My mother says that I will get it at least until 17 but maybe longer.

Over 21 and still belted? Wow! Boy or girl?
I have no choice.

@nevergiveup: I know. I try to behave! But I always get into trouble.

the answer is simple dont misbehave and you wont get punished

@nevergiveup: I also get it every week usually.

Thank you! I will try to behave better!

@erenstcharles: It's not possible.

"Corporal punishment" is abuse.

Make a choice and say no.