I feel like my mother is either a narc or just went full crazy ptsd since she was almost

Mu.rdered by one of my dad's old lover's mother.
She's throwing a tantrum rn in front of my dad to seem like the victim of all out evils and is super controlling and paranoid about the things I choose to do like trying to go out of the house for a walk or for shopping or to the parlour, she will either not allow me or will go with me. Wtf???