to have kids because your parents want to be grandparents

I don’t think it’s selfish, because it’s the core principle of continuing the human existence as a species but it’s not selfish to not want kids. It’s definitely selfish having babies when you know that you don’t want to be a parent and do the parenting stuff.

Not at all. Too many people have kids that shouldnt have them.

I don't think either is selfish in itself. Just gotta make sure the reasoning for both acknowledges the welfare of the kids.

I don't think it's selfish either way.

It's all a little selfish, but we're allowed a preference.

It's only selfish if you are just having them so you aren't lonely

Some people don’t choose

dont matter i dont want kids