That’s probably a little different for everyone. I have a sister who seems to get her direction in life by always having something to fix, something to fret about, something to struggle with. When her life is too content, she messes something up to create a problem. Frankly, I just don’t think she knows how else to be alive. 🤷‍♀️

Because I'm damn good at it! 😉
Seriously...I'm a "fixer" by nature so I struggle with saying no and anticipating obstacles. BUT!!! I'm working on this and am better than I was.☺️