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KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@johntomSWPhd yes. I have a kid and two step kids, but split custody with my ex and his.

DragonFruit · 61-69, M
Not getting older sucks worse.
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@DragonFruit True enough. Though with my hangups in life that can be debatable.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
@KickfaceK Nonsense! It’s always better to be alive than dead.
SW-User
Run away on that day and go do whatever you want.
Getting older isn't so bad :)
SW-User
@KickfaceK Even if you can't. Make time for yourself. Get your nails done or whatever makes you happy. I hope you have an awesome day. Happy birthday in advance. :)
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@SW-User Thank you. I will try to do that.
SW-User
@KickfaceK You're welcome
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Getting older is not for the weak, but something tells me you're far from weak.
Enjoy your day, make this the first of many great birthdays.
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@rottenrobi Thank you. I will try.
antonioio · 70-79, M
Your being silly
Your so young and theirs so much living for you to do yet
Your talking about your ex so I will say this to you
Never look back because anything good to come will only be in the future
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@antonioio you're right. I need go be better.
antonioio · 70-79, M
@KickfaceK let us know when it's your birthday
Because theirs loads here who will wish you sell
sassypants · 36-40, F
What I have learned is not to count on anyone else. Take it upon yourself to make your birthday a special day. Treat yourself to a spa day or a weekend getaway with a friend.
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@sassypants i wish i had friends... im also struggling to get by. *sigh*
sassypants · 36-40, F
@KickfaceK so sorry hun! 🤗
SW-User
It seems like it’s time to let your husband go. You seem very unhappy.
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@SW-User Ex husband. Thankfully. Unfortunately, we share a child so he still has to be in my life.
SW-User
@KickfaceK Oh my, I didn’t read the “ ex “ part 😅, my bad
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 sometime u just make your own plan and don’t expect from anyone .. that’s what I have learnt ...
SW-User
I started using mine to spend a day doing nice things on my own. People still take me out for dinner or occasionally get me a gift, but I make plans for just myself. It's not bad.
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@SW-User Just dinner would be nice for me..
SW-User
@KickfaceK Have a favorite meal at a restaurant you like. Even alone, it’s special.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
It sounds as if the problem is the people around you, not getting older.

Do you have a friend you could spend your birthday with?
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@DrWatson I unfortunately lost my two best friends to drug addiction and I had to step away. She is on pills all the time and her husband (my other best friend) is busy trying to take care of her. I have to work, bf has to work late. It will go by just like another day.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@KickfaceK I had a period of time, in my 20's, where no one around me knew about my birthday and I felt ignored. It was bad, but the good news is that things can get better with time.

Meanwhile, allow me to wish you a happy birthday, a bit early! 🎉
Rambler · M
All I can tell you is, you just get used to it. Buy yourself a present though -- something thoughtful. :)
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@Rambler My sons and bf's birthday is 3 weeks after so I can never find it in myself to spend money.
Slickmel · 56-60, M
Getting older is making better choices and getting wiser
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Happy Birthday to you my darling friend!
Cowboybob · M
Wow. and you're still very young
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@Cowboybob next week will be my last year in my 20's
Happy Birthday, love!
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I don't mind my birthday. I think about the better times
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@KickfaceK My girlfriend completely disregarded my birthday a few years ago.
KickfaceK · 31-35, F
@uncalled4 :( It hurts when it is those close to you. My ex husband never celebrated me ever. Birthday. Christmas. Our anniversary. Nothing. I never even got a mother's day card until I left him and he was trying to get me back.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@KickfaceK https://similarworlds.com/3-Dating-Relationships/2346059-Girlfriend-did-nothing-for-my-birthday-Am-I-right
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
I always treat myself to something, as I'm getting okder, nobody buys presents anymore

 
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