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Orlbe · 26-30, F
How long it's been since you've seen the dog?
I last saw him on February 25th for one day (picked him and dropped him off same day)@Orlbe
Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Lupepnte And at first was every two weeks? I mean, how hard is it for you to go and pick up the dog when he is home etc..He obviously doesn't care or he doesn't want to see you. Blocked you when he was seeing someone else? I would say may be ask him for a friendly coffee and express how you feel and see if you can make another arrangement. Over the phone sometimes isn't as the same as face to face. He may say no of course. Then what?
Plan B: Let it go. Forget about him and cherish the memories of the dog. Block him too. Move on.
Guess in this time it's hard but was going to suggest that you go and adopt another pup.
It's not just about the dog, it's about the ex too...
Hugs 🤗

The owner of the dog has all the rights, so there's really nothing much you can do about it.

Just some ideas to contemplate.
If you're still living with your Dad, ask him if he would accept to having a dog that doesn't shed.
Poodle and Schnauzers don't shed; their hair grows continuously. This means they need lots of regular grooming, and full clipping in the warmer months.

Or consider leaving home and living independently so you can have a dog (or two).

Or consider volunteering a few hours a week at a dog or animal adoption centre.

I can't have a dog because it would chase our wild wallabies, and I don't like having to tie up a dog or keep it in a small yard. Instead, when out, I ask owners if they'll let me pet or play with their dog. Most owners are happy to say yes. (Alas, not during this COVID shutdown.)

 
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