@Gr8Guy1979 I don't think that your weird at all! Chivalry is rare these days and you seem to have it...and if you don't see their weight then you are not superficial and see what is deeper than the skin and that is rare too.
As for your health issue, that is great you are doing something about it, most will rely on just medication to do the work for them. waliking is really good low impact, realistically achiveable and the weight will come off gradually, but you will most likely will be able to maintain a healthy weight. I am a type 2 diabetic myself I inherited mine through one of my parents who dont have it but carry the defected gene.. job well done with taking charge and taking care of yourself..it's never too late be pro-active in your life.