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I've seen you before and wondered if you were aware. I thought you weren't.. but you are, so please keep trying. It only need be with one other person. Find someone who has great strength and worship with them. Find two if you can. Be careful who you choose.. for both your own well being and their own.

I'm so proud of you for seeking answers and trying to understand your situation. Remember that God's love for you isn't based on your abilities or circumstances.

It's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed, but please don't carry the weight of responsibility for others' well-being on your shoulders. You're precious to God, and He wants to help you and free you from carrying so much on your shoulders. He invites us to give our burdens over to him. He would tell you that it's not for you to carry all those burdens of others. He is more able to do that, then you.

I also want to acknowledge the concerns you have about how your challenges that might affect others in your church community. It's understandable that you'd want to protect them, but try not to let fear and anxiety dictate your decisions. You're not alone in this struggle. Many people face similar challenges, and God is big enough to handle your and their concerns. Let's look at this together and see what God might be saying to you.

It's clear that you're deeply concerned about your impact on others, but remember that Jesus calls us to come to Him as we are. He's definitely not looking for perfect people; He's looking for people who are willing to come to Him in their struggles.

I also must say that I'm quite concerned about your pastor's attitude about this. That's really concerning, as pastors are supposed to be supportive, not negative in considering one's feelings and struggles. It's understandable that one might experience internal struggles or feelings of guilt, but it's another thing entirely to have spiritual leaders or pastors reinforcing negative and damaging messages. Is it possible that you might have misinterpreted or misremembered their words? I can certainly understand how you would feel upset and how that might affect your self-image and sense of belonging in the church. I believe a more supportive and loving approach from spiritual leaders could make a big difference in your life. I've known pastors to be loving and supportive, even when people are struggling. Perhaps you may want to consider a more supportive community or reaching out to a trusted pastor or spiritual brother or sister in the church, for guidance and support. They may be able to offer valuable insights and encouragement.

I hope you'll find comfort in these scriptures:

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)


Remember, beloved sister in Christ...you are loved, valued, and accepted by God, regardless of your condition or circumstances. I think Jesus would tell you that you belong in the church, as much as anyone else who fights the same spiritual influences as you do. I hope this brings you some peace and encouragement, knowing that Jesus loves you and he wants and welcomes you into his house, alongside your other brothers and sisters in Christ.

Remember, God wants and welcomes you to be a part of the church community, just like the rest of your Brothers and Sisters in Christ --- imperfections and all. God calls us to healing and freedom.

All my love, Grace
Carazaa · F
I think if you can find a Biblical church, where the people are kind, I would go. If you can't find one maybe, you can have a prayer group at home and invite your neighbors? Prayer groups are so great!
First off remember God is sovereign, even over evil spirits.

Second church members bare each other's burdens.

I still don't attend church under the guise that I am too sick to attend church... I don't know anywhere in the Bible where it ever says that..

It doesn't because all of us believers in Christ are to attend church. Find a good, Bible believing Gospel preaching church.

We are not to be lone wolves as Christians, we need to worship corporately and encourage one another!
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
What do those scriptures have to do with anything?

 
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