A woman I work with recently had breast reduction surgery, and she's very happy with the results. She was out for a month. I do get the desire to avoid surgery if at all possible, but it could be worth it.

Regarding finding a bra, I'm not sure if you live near a big city, but you should be able to find a tailor who can sew a custom bra. I'm sure this isn't cheap but it may be a better option than dealing with bras that don't fit and putting up with back pain.

you might have read my posts on this before.
and YES I am a GUY and Hetro
but I woked in fashion a lonf time,, still do some consulting

too many ladies dont get the right bra,, WHy?
@TheBustyBlogger because too many try to save money
truth is better bra's cost more. I learned a lot from "the Bra Lady of New York"
alas Mrs Koch is dead now
but her process was deep
1st. the right "harness." the straps and foundation that are the base of a good bra
"lets see how much support you are going to need hun"
and cups//
it is not just size,, but shape! and no two breasts are the same, so often different cups on either sizes. many different shapes
so custom fit is best...

takeaway? TRY THEM ON reject any that don't fit really well.
and be ready to spend $100

I feel your struggles, people can be so rude.

Thank you for sharing, that was so enjoyable to read. You write so well

love your inspirational posts!

I very much feel your concerns. And if i were in your place, i think i would be doing the same things.

I'm glad you're healthy and keeping a positive outlook on things.

I can't help feeling in some way that this is a gift from God. I understand if you disagree.

Glad you find your handful or 10 bust to be fabulous 🥰 sorry you struggle too you are incredible keeping a positive attitude to them and everything in general 🥰

I like your new user name.

Well said, it may help other women in your situation