HOW COULD YOU EAT MY BABIES??????? NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

replace it with "real" instead of "opt". research shows that pessismist are actually less likely to succumb to depression than optimists because they are never disappointed if they expect the worst. often instead, they are pleasantly surprised when things work out. but the best balance is being a realist. understanding that life isn't rainbows and unicorns but not being a complete drag about the prospects of the future