I was misgendered, after washing, shaving and applying my make-up [I Am A Tranny Think I Want To Be A Women]

I washed, i did my make-up, after shaving, which i did after washing in the gym toilet and i wore a skirt and was still referred to as "him" (possibly my deep voice gave me away) by a woman at a restaurant in the next suburb, about a week (probably 6 days back) back, she was transfixed on me as we spoke, i think she was checking me out

Yesterday, i bought a dominos "designa" ("designa" pizza for a "designa" girl) pizza and a dominos cheesy garlic pizza, told the reception "Donna" and was put down as "Donald" (it'd make for a great couple, "Donna and Donald" or preferably "Donald and Donna")

I haven't washed or shaved or done my make-up in the last few days and still get guys glare and glance my way

Some guy, comments "good luck" as i'm heading home

Fyi, i'm wearing skirts and a pair of pants, love it, finally feel me

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spearot32 · 36-40, T

Misgendering is unfortunately something you will deal with for the rest of your life. It's learning how to deal with it, and that takes time.

I live as a woman, have had SRS, FFS, multiple BA surgeries and have a fairly feminine voice. Unless I tell someone I am trans, then they wouldn't know. And it's the bigots that call me he/him. Usually I can walk away from a situation before it gets out of hand. But when I can't, yelling and screaming is the kind of reaction they want, at least that's what I have found.

Don't let others define your self-worth. Some days are worse than others, but the good days are amazing. Focus on the good days, and what made them good, and what you did to make them good, and it starts to become a habit.

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