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Giving up the hunt

For a long time, I’ve been on this site to connect with like minded women to hopefully have cyber sex. I’m in a sexless marriage. It was a way for me to feel alive with someone else.

I wasn’t planning on leaving my marriage or physically cheating.

Most often I didn’t make any sincere connections and the chats went nowhere. But when the spark was right - they were awesome.

I’ve decided to give it all up. I’m scared that I’ll never again have a spark or an exciting connection with another human. Haven’t given up entirely on my wife, hoping for a miracle. We are 50. Not getting any younger. Not sure how I’ll even feel about sex in the upcoming years. But I know it’s an area of my life (along with intimacy) that sucks. But trying to score in cyber space or enjoying relief/release brought on from Porn/Mast - aren’t getting it done either. Has anyone else, just resigned themself to living the balance of their life without intimacy/sex? I’m trying something different for me - going to rely on a lot of faith. Don’t know what’s going to happen.

We’ll see.
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Hunt says it all right there. If it’s a connection it’s kind, mutual and exciting. Most men here shop the people page looking in the bargain bin for trash.
Tranks · 51-55, M
I’m glad you called me on using the word “hunt”. I guess I just viewed that as an exciting search for the quality connection. Some excitement in this depressing facet of my life.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
No. Don't give up. Don't condemn yourself to a life of mediocrity. Or nothingness.
Stay here. Talk to people. Get out of that box now. Good luck. 🙂
Tranks · 51-55, M
[@322117,Zonuss] thanks for the encouragement. Much needed and much appreciated
addicted · 56-60, M
good luck. my wife over the past 8 years ahs pretty much given up on sex. We have it every soo often, but i feel like she's just going thru the motions. very frustrating as my sex drive has increased as ive gotten older.

 
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